Kids Can Be Foodies Too! Check Out Netflix’s Family-Friendly Show “Somebody Feed Phil”
It can be difficult to find a family-friendly show that’s a good fit for both younger and older kids. We love the new Netflix series Somebody Feed Phil, which follows the travel and food adventures of Phil Rosenthal, a television writer who brings enthusiasm and wonder with him whoever he goes. He was recently interviewed by 7-year-old fan Evan Wittenberg, who asks the hard-hitting questions we want answers to, such as “What’s the grossest food you ate this season?”:
We hope you enjoy the show too!
Recommended Reading
We loved this article about raising a teenage daughter, which was written by Elizabeth Weil and edited by her 15-year-old daughter. Just click on the highlighted sections to read Hannah’s reactions to her mother’s writing:
https://story.californiasunday.com/raising-a-teenage-daughter
And check out The California Sunday Magazine for an entire issue devoted to the lives of teenagers in the United States today.
How Much Choice Do Kids Need?
Dr. Corinne Masur
Once upon a time (when I was growing up) children were told, “Tonight we are having chicken a la king for dinner.” Now, you might have hated chicken a la king, or perhaps you had the same thing for lunch at school…but that was STILL what was for dinner.
At some point parenting changed, and the idea that choices were important for children’s development became popular. “Child centered parenting” was on the cutting edge, and giving children choices in what to wear, what to eat, and what to do was part of that.
At the very same time, our society was becoming increasingly industrialized with more and more consumer products becoming available in stores. In the 50’s, as the world was recovering from WWII, middle class people in Western nations might have a car– or they might not. But they usually didn’t have two cars. Adult women might have a few nice dresses and a few for everyday wear, but that was it. No one had a walk in closet–they didn’t need one! Children had clothes for dressy occasions, school, and play, and these categories did not mix.
Now that we have prepared foods at grocery stores, take-out food, fast food, Amazon, Target, and Walmart (plus lots of things imported from other countries where labor is cheap), dinner is often whatever your child wants. Kids often have a great deal of choice in clothing, and their weekends are full of playdates and activities of their choosing.
Is this helpful for children? Continue reading
Talking about Technology
Dr. Corinne Masur
The promotional website for Screenagers, a film about technology in families, is offering new conversation starters for parents every Tuesday. This week, they’re focusing on how kids feel about their parents’ connection to technology and asking the following questions:
- What are some of the best ways I give you my attention?
- Do you find that I’m on my phone, tablet or laptop when you want my attention?
- What are ways you can tell that I am only half paying attention?
And if you’re interested in learning more about the movie: “Award-winning SCREENAGERS probes into the vulnerable corners of family life, including the director’s own, and depicts messy struggles, over social media, video games, academics and internet addiction. Through surprising insights from authors and brain scientists solutions emerge on how we can empower kids to best navigate the digital world.”
Allowing Kids to Feel Lonely
Dr. Corinne Masur
In an op-ed in last week’s Sunday New York Times, Frank Bruni talks about the shock that many – or perhaps most – college freshman face when they get to college. Having been sold on how much fun college will be, on how they will have “the time of their lives” by nostalgic parents and teachers, they are stunned to feel…lonely. And not just at first. In a survey of 28,000 college students on 51 campuses by The American College Health Association, more than 60% said they had felt “very lonely” in the previous 12 months. Nearly 30% said that they had felt that way in the past 2 weeks.
What gives? Continue reading
First Day of Daycare or Pre-school
Dr. Corinne Masur
Sending your infant or young child off to daycare or pre-school for the first time can be heart wrenching – for BOTH to you.
Suddenly, the baby you cared for so carefully will be in the hands of others. This can cause parents to feel more anxious than they anticipated feeling! Often parents feel a loss of control over their child’s care and wellbeing. Fear, guilt, and regret may follow.
What can you do?
The infant who is 6-months-old or younger: Continue reading
Back to School Anxiety
Dr. Corinne Masur and Dr. Erin Hadley
For parents, the end of summer and the start of the new school year can be either a relief or a source of anxiety – or both!
Many parents are more than ready for their children to go back to school in the fall. It can feel like everyone is tired of each other after a summer of being at home together or traveling together. Without the routine of the school year, it can be hard for parents to come up with new and interesting activities to keep everyone happy.
On the other hand, when children and parents have to leave the more leisurely pace of summer behind in order to return to daycare, school, or work, a great deal of anxiety can be felt. Starting a new grade or going to daycare or school for the first time can be hard.
It’s important for parents to avoid getting lost in their own anxiety over school supplies, new clothes, and medical forms and, instead, remember that new things can be very difficult for children. Continue reading
Sensory Friendly Sundays at The Franklin Institute
TFI cuts back on the blinking lights, reduces the volume, and opens early once a quarter for kids who would otherwise be too overwhelmed by the stimulation of the regular Franklin Institute displays.
https://www.fi.edu/special-events/sensory-friendly-sunday
It’s Sprayground Season!
Attention Philly parents! Check out this guide for places to beat the heat this summer:
http://www.phillymag.com/be-well-philly/2017/07/11/spraygrounds-philadelphia
Have fun and stay cool 🙂
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